Does the idea of talking dirty in bed fascinate you?
In case it does, don’t be shy to accept it. It is natural and normal that talking dirty in bed helps in sexually exciting your partner during sex. So, if you also want to learn how to talk dirty, in order to give your partner and yourself a better level of sexual satisfaction then going through this article is sure to do you some good.
Now you may say, you find it fascinating yet you can’t picture yourself talking dirty, is it?
Well, this is actually a very common problem that many women are faced with; so you know that you are not the only one. Yes, many a times, talking dirty might make you sound silly and awkward but if it can help you enhance your sex life with your partner then why not give it a try. And moreover, if the words come spontaneously and naturally from you, you’re bound to sound sexy which is quite the opposite of awkward. Therefore, the key to learn ‘how to talk dirty’ is not to learn the words but to learn how to get comfortable with your spouse.
First of all, dirty talk is not something that you do all the time; it calls for right time and right moment for doing it. Make sure that you don’t sound as if you are forcefully trying to talk dirty; it should come naturally from you. So, in order to sound spontaneous and natural, as I mentioned earlier, you need to be comfortable with your partner. It is advisable that you start with small talk, say for example, talk about how you like being with him, how sexy he looks and the like. Do not jump into talking dirty from the very beginning, or else instead of sounding hot and passionate you might just give the impression that you are trying to dramatize things. It is very important to build the mood and hence, you need to go step-by-step so as to ensure that both you and your partner enjoy every moment spent in between the sheets or wherever you choose.
Remember, just speaking dirty words is not going to help you much in making your sex fun and exciting. You need to be as creative as possible in choosing your words and using them. And it is hard to be creative if you are too conscious of what you are doing and what you are going to say. So relax, take things easy, and be yourself.
Also remember that your tone of voice plays a very important role in making the moment all the more hot and passionate. You may just want to say simple things, but if you can modulate your tone a bit, trust me, it can work wonders.
Now that you have gone through this article you probably have a fair idea on how to go about talking dirty during sex. So feel free to consider what we have discussed and take your sex life to a whole new level!